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Herbert Stricklin

Experienced therapist focused on relationships and resilience

About Herbert

Herbert Stricklin offers experienced, compassionate care for people facing a wide range of emotional and relational challenges.

Background and approach

With 35 years in the field and an Illinois LCPC credential, he works with concerns such as stress, anxiety, depression, mood disorders, bipolar disorder, addictions, trauma and abuse, anger, and intimacy-related problems. He also addresses relationship strain, control issues, divorce and separation, fatherhood concerns, jealousy, forgiveness, men’s issues, midlife transitions, and sexuality.

Herbert draws on evidence-informed methods including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, the Gottman Method for relationship work, and Narrative Therapy to help clients reframe stories that influence their feelings and behaviors. He adapts conversations and treatment plans to each person’s unique situation, honoring sensitivity and respect while setting practical goals.

He emphasizes collaboration and supports clients through the often-difficult first steps toward change. Practicing in Illinois and licensed as an LCPC, he is available to international clients and offers multiple remote session formats.

Prospective clients can expect an approachable professional who combines decades of experience with flexible, individualized care.

Approach-Based Online Therapy for Relationships and Life Transitions

Herbert commonly integrates Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and the Gottman Method when working online. CBT focuses on identifying and changing patterns of thinking and behavior that contribute to stress, anxiety, depression, and mood symptoms, providing practical tools for managing emotions and improving daily functioning. The Gottman Method concentrates on relationship dynamics by teaching communication skills, building trust, and addressing conflict in ways that improve intimacy and connection.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process and Herbert works collaboratively with each client to decide what fits best. He will discuss goals, preferences, and the specific issues at hand, combining techniques from his approaches to create a tailored plan that reflects the client's needs and pace.

Online therapy options include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging, which allow for greater flexibility in scheduling and continuity of care across locations. These formats make it possible to engage in regular sessions, practice new skills between meetings, and maintain momentum while balancing work and life commitments.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Herbert address?
He helps with stress, anxiety, depression, mood disorders including bipolar, addiction, trauma and abuse, anger, intimacy and a range of relationship issues. Additional focuses include control issues, divorce and fatherhood matters.
What therapeutic style does he use?
He uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, the Gottman Method, and Narrative Therapy to tailor work to each client's goals. Sessions combine practical skill-building with exploration of personal stories and relationship patterns.
How long has he been practicing?
He brings 35 years of professional experience to his practice, offering long-term clinical knowledge across a variety of concerns.
Where is he licensed and based?
He is licensed in Illinois as an LCPC with license number IL LCPC 180-003022 and practices from that state.
Can nonlocal clients work with him?
Yes, he accepts international clients and offers sessions to people outside his immediate region.
What session formats are available?
He conducts video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to accommodate different preferences and schedules.
How are sessions paid for and what do they cost?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to his availability.